Clients vs Art: How Not to Lose Yourself When Everyone Wants "Like in the Photo"
“And do it for me like this,” she says, and holds up a picture from Pinterest. You look at the design done on XXL almond-shaped nails, and in front of you sits a girl with 3 mm squares. And now what?
Many masters are afraid to say “no”. They are afraid that the client will leave, be offended, write a bad review. And in the end, they agree. They do something that is not appropriate, does not fit the form, does not resonate with their sense of style. And then they feel tired and irritated.
Let's be honest: your work is also creativity . And it has the right to respect.
- You are not a "handyman", you are a specialist
A craftswoman is not just someone who "coated with varnish". This is a person who knows how to do it right, how it will be better, how to do it without harm. And your task is not to "please at any cost", but to offer the best in terms of style, anatomy, and technique.
- Teach the client to trust
Explain. Not dryly: “it won’t work like this,” but vividly: “look, your form is a little different, but I can offer a similar mood, only adapted to you.” When you speak calmly, confidently, and kindly, you are heard.
- Offer more than just copy
You can take an idea as a basis and create something new. Say, "If you want, I can make you a variation on this theme, just in a slightly different color — it will better emphasize your hands."
And now you're not just a performer. You're a stylist. And that's what they're coming back to.
- Your vision is your superpower
Not all clients are looking for just a good design. Many are looking for a master who feels. Who will tell you, support you, and guide you. And if you start acting like an expert, that's exactly what they'll come to you for.
Result
When you respect yourself, others respect you. Don't be afraid to say "no" if you see that "yes" won't make a person happier. And don't forget: every design should include not only the trend, but also you.
